If you and a boyfriend have broken up, it may be even harder to get them back than it was to get them in the first place. However, if winning your ex boyfriend backis what you really want to do then there are several websites which will willingly tell you how best to go about it.
The websites obviously do not know you or your ex and so cannot tell you specifics but they do give advice as to what you should not do and the one thing that they all agree on is that you should never beg your ex-boyfriend to come back to you.
They claim that when you beg the boy to come back, they will lose respect for you having to resort to begging and so if they do return, it would only be due to sympathy and that is no grounds on which to start a renewed relationship.
A relationship re-generated through pity is destined to fail and so although you may initially win them back, it would only be for a short time and then you would have lost all chances of ever getting them back again.
These websites also state what I think we all already know which is stalking them is a very bad idea. Usually stalkers are caught and the people being stalked will hate them for invading their privacy which basically means you will never again get a chance to win them back.
Lastly, most of the websites will advise you not to bring up the past, regardless of how many good times you shared and their reasoning for this is based on research which showed that when someone is reminded of some good times, they will also remember the bad times and that may not be too good for you, depending of course on the circumstances that caused the initial break up.
The websites therefore suggest you should have a laid back casual approach to getting the boyfriend back. A chance meeting perhaps where you ask after their well-being and mention how you miss them andthis hopefully will prick their curiosity as they will probably want to know how much you have missed them, leading to a further meeting to discuss it.
If that meeting occurs, keep the conversation about the present and future and try to let them be the one to suggest that you get back together. If that does of course happen you must be careful not to make the same mistakes you made before, the ones which led to the break up in the first place.
One of the most common reasons for break ups is that one is not prepared to make a commitment and so let them be the first to mention a commitment of any kind. This of course means that you may have to be very patient but we did mention that getting an old boyfriend back would not be easy and so you must prepare yourself to be as patient as it takes in order to really get the boy back for a meaningful relationship.